Today’s guest post comes from a dear friend of mine, Justin Benton. I met Justin right after moving to Arizona. Even though we’ve both moved on, myself back home and Justin to New York (damn Yankee) he has remained like a brother to me. Justin also has a fantastic sense of style and offered to share something all southern gentleman should know about, hats.
Category: men’s
xoelle
Laura of Xoelle is a Pensacola resident with a love of thrift stores, whipped cream, twilight walks, and traveling. She also happens to make really great bow ties and writing journals out of all reclaimed materials. Learn about how she sources her fabric and what her upcoming projects are.
Harlequin freestyle bow tie
So why bow ties and books?
Both are sentimental and old-fashioned and slightly out-dated.
Everything I make is very sentimental and personal to me. I am an avid journaler, often filling up a journal in a month or two. I’m particular about the type of journal that I use- particular enough that I started making them. I started selling them to pay for the industrial equipment I purchased and haven’t stopped because I really enjoy it. I make bow ties because my husband is a bow tie wearer. I had been collecting vintage neckties since high school to gift to my future husband, and then I fell in love with the guy in the bow tie. I converted the whole collection of neckties to bow ties.
Retro lattice bow tie
Who is your average customer? Does he live in a particular part of the country?
My average customer is a 25-30 year old man who is anything but average. He’s witty, intelectual, goofy, geeky, centered, and unconventional. My own bow-tie-wearing husband quilts, rides a crotch rocket, plays the piano in church every Sunday, and mountain bikes. I send bow ties all over the world but send the most to New York City, Washington DC, and Toronto, Canada.
Denture Prosthesis recycled journal
How do you select your fabrics? How do your reclaimed materials withstand the tugging and tying from use?
I source my materials from charity thrift stores. I use mostly neckties, button-down shirts, and ladies skirts. They are rugged! Using reclaimed materials actually assures that they’ll be of a better quality than if I was using new materials. As a small, by hand manufacturer I can use awesome materials that are otheriwse out of my budget, and get them in small quantities. I only choose materials that can withstand the tying and retying of the bow.
Literature of the United States recycled journal
Tell us a little about your plans for the future.
There are exciting things coming in the xoelle world. I’m starting to work on some photo albums on the book side, and more custom options (like embroidery and scrrenprinting) on the bow tie side. Bow ties have really been making their way back into fashion so I’m sure I’ll be busy for quite some time!
Pumpkin Pie freestyle bow
Define southern style.
Southern style is layed back and comfortable. It’s all about wide open spaces and back porches and lights strung in a line. It’s about putting the family and food in the forefront and staying out all night long. Love it.
Xoelle bow ties and journals can be acquired from the following stockists:
I consider myself a pretty decent wife. I cook, clean (sometimes), play property manager, get the dog walked and the errands run. I don’t keep all the fun stuff so he gets the honors of makin’ groceries since I hate doing it. Overall we split up the things we do to pretend like we are grownups pretty fairly.
For us college students out there, classes are now in full swing. Our planners are filling up with projects, tests, jobs and trying to squeeze in some sort of social activity as well. With all of this in mind, who has the time or the money to dedicate to expanding our fall wardrobes? Believe it or not, you do. YES, YOU! Let’s just be honest here; if you have the time to brush your teeth and run a comb through your hair before class, then you have the time to opt out of the dorm shorts and college tee in exchange for something a little bit more grown up.
New Orleans,LA 70124
Phone: (504) 286-1858
Buffalo Exchange (Don’t be afraid to be a frequent flyer either, because they get “new” stuff in every day, unlike many retail stores)
Perlis is donating $6 from every Support The Coast t-shirt to the Greater New Orleans Foundation and the Coalition to Restore Coastal Louisiana. $5 from every Save the Coast t-shirt will go to gulfrelief.org.
Feet First is extending their “Insane” sale. Use the code “Insane50” online and receive 50% off already marked sale items. The sale applies to online and in store merchandise.
The south is all about traditions, whether you are happily partaking in old ones, creating new ones or breaking them altogether. Personally I find it amusing when I don pearls since I have visible tattoos, three of which are southern icons. No matter how you choose to showcase your pride it’s always good to treat our icons with reverence and a big dash of fun. At least that’s what I told myself when I got my Sailor Jerry shrimp tattoo. What can I say I’m serious about not taking myself too seriously!
Ahem. Back to the post.
Dixie Patches is an online store that specializes in traditional southern style. Whether it be a seersucker hanky for your dog, shotgun cufflinks, or a magonlia pendant necklace this Florida based company is heavy on tradition and fun.
These cute silver charms are reminiscent of the things we love. Gators, okra, mint juleps, and magnolias. When you purchase the peel & eat shrimp or the oyster cracker charms your purchase will benefit the America’s Wetland Foundation. They also donate a percentage of the hurricane palm to the Greater New Orleans Foundation
Finishing touches for women include grosgrain bows, t-shirts, and jewelry.
I think this sums up a southern belle nicely:
She is sweet, yet strong
She sips her wine, yet gulps her beer
She’s polite, yet saucy
She’s refined, yet wild
She wears bows… fishing
She’s a Southern Belle
Rye is offering 30-50% off white dresses just in time for White Linen Night.
Sterling Silvia is having a 50% off sale on all their Save the Turtles colleciton.
Porter Stevens summer sale is going on now with clearance items marked 30-60% off.
Sabai Jewelry 20-25% off everything in the store now through August 15th.
And don’t forget to enter for a chance to win Go NOLA’s men’s makeover! One lucky guy will win a prize package from Branch Out, Buffalo Exchange, Rubenstein’s, and Twisted Hair Salon. Hurry up and enter the deadline is July 25th.
- The Green Project is hosting a rust dyeing fabric demonstration on Saturday, July 17th from 11am-12pm. Learn how to use rust to make designs and prints on fabric and show how to use this textile art after it has been dyed.
- Yvonne Lafleur‘s summer sale is going on now. The shop is offering 30% off linen, $99 cocktail and day dresses, Mardi Gras gowns $99-$199 and much more.
- Ballins LTD is offering an additional 40% off sale merchandise from now until Saturday July 17th.
- Feet First is celebrating their 33rd anniversary by offering 33% off everything, including sale items Friday July 23rd-Sunday July 25th.
- Plato’s Closet is having a $1.00 sale July 17th and 18th
- Thrift City USA is offering 1/2 off all clothing and shoes this Thursday (today)
- Enter to win a men’s Makeover from Go NOLA! The lucky winner will receive a full makeover, including a haircut. For more information go here. Trust me guys the prize package is outstanding!
Show & Tell
This week’s Show & Tell Saturday is a double whammy, featuring a really special item and a cool new shop on Magazine St.
I know I talk a lot about traditional southern specialties, like boat shoes and seersucker but as equally important and infinitely cooler are the blue collar staples of yesteryear.*
Behold my old as dirt Jack Daniel’s tee. Procured from the Phoenix Buffalo Exchange I had to practically arm wrestle a friend for this. He’ll be happy to know it is being lovingly stored in the dirty south where it truly belongs.
Properly southern y’all
Southern Proper is a clothing and lifestyle company that epitomizes southern prep. Owners Emilie Claire Henderson and Reagan Elizabeth Hardy combine “elements of southern heritage and classic haberdashery” for “men who have a deep appreciation for style and heritage.”
From your head down to your drawers, or drawls, as they call their boxers line, you can dress the part no matter on which side of the Mason-Dixon line you reside.
Taking cues from classic southern symbols these accessories are sure to become a fun fixture in any man’s wardrobe. Their Spring 2010 line focuses on Kentucky, with nods to the racetrack in the form of horse bits, jockey uniforms, and of course, horses. Other lines include magnolia, cotton, bourbon and cigars, mallards, alligators, okra, and collegiate prints.
While the line primarily focuses on men’s accessories and shirts there are a few women’s products as well. Southern Proper also stocks pearls, headbands, and polo tees, items that no preppy wardrobe should be without.
The ladies from Southern Proper even have an online question and answer section to address etiquette and style, dilemmas, just to make sure y’all are acting like gentleman.
Get the proper look online or at any of these retailers.
Southern gentleman keep your eyes peeled on Gonola.com because I will be announcing a very special contest for y’all soon!
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